About visiting while difficult child is on diciplinary. He said that difficult child is allowed 1 visit every thirty days from family and friends. UG that means if his crazy ex visits husband can't. He said husband could see difficult child this friday and if the guard gives him a hard time husband should ask him to call over to the warden. He also said that the caseworker from MH will be given access to difficult child as would any clergy that we could convince to visit him. The warden actually seems like a nice guy. Said that difficult child just won't do what he is told. We talked a little about difficult child's MH issues so at least the warden is now aware of them. He also said that maybe if we leave difficult child in prison for a while he will begin to come around. He said at least he is safe and not hurting anyone. The warden said that although they are not a mental health facility they are becoming more and more of one. He said that unfortunately once these difficult child kids reach 18 many of their supports fall away and many of them end up in trouble. The warden also said that if difficult child doesn't come around that we can expect him to be in and out of prison many times. Nothing new here just one more person in the system saying it doesn't work well but it is all we have. He said he wished he had answers but until someone starts throwing alot of money into mental health issues nothing is going to change much. He also told me he felt that would be the case for a long time to come even though they are beginning a MH court in our county soon.