Janet, I too, am very glad that you are back!
And I totally get not wanting kids to live with you anymore. None of ours are allowed to anymore. Even with Ant having a broken foot and living in an old RV, he's not even allowed to park it in our driveway. It sounds harsh on the surface, but anyone that deals with difficult children knows it's for OUR sanity! I love my kids, but they can't live with me. It's time for YOU to have some peace in your life.
Much love,
Mom2oddson