I am back! difficult child 2 has wound back up again, luckily it has not landed him in the hospital again, but it is getting there. psychiatrist saw him two maybe three times, and now I cant get a hold of him to get an appointment. Therapist keeps standing us up. So I am on the hunt again. In the past month, we have had 4 MAJOR breakdowns, two have been at school, one resulted in suspension , the other resulted in the police being called /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/919Mad.gif (he left school grounds, what do you expect?) Now if I am going to be away from any phone I need to call the school and let them know. On a good note, the school psychiatric saw his last fit and his theory yes, he may have an anxiety issue, but the bigger problem is a mood disorder. I have been saying that all along! To add insult to injury, difficult child 1 is starting up again too. Since I am not spanking either one of them, my mother swears all of this is my fault, and I do not know how to handle my kids. Happy times again, just so everyone knows, I have figured out how to keep my stress level down I am training for triathlons this summer!