Heres some history: My ex husband and I separated when my youngest was not quite 1. She was always a quiet baby, never cried and was overall great compared to my 3 toddlers. When I left my ex, he took my kids, hid them and we started going through a very messy divorce, I think screwing up my kids in the process. Chris got temporary custody and proceeded to drag me through the mud of how horrible of a mother I am and was. During which time, he started dating his best friends wife, moved her kids into the marital home, and I lived a half hour away as I had to go to a shelter for protection after he assaulted me on night. Everybody was in his corner, including our neighbors and my brother, who all of them, had said previously he wasn't the one who said he shouldn't get the kids. We separated in 2006. during all this throughout several years time, refusing me the kids, me going into inpatient treatment for mental issues because the courts wont quit,he had the kids with many different caregivers and to top it off I lost custody of my oldest child when theis was all going on and I fell apart. My ex husband who had raised my daughter since she was 6 months old, he refused to go to court with me. Nakyta is now in texas since 2008 and Ive gotten to see her twice since then. (I'm not ok, this has caused me so much mentally,but .. I'm trying to deal with it through journaling. anyways, during the year, my kids are raised by me, my ex-husband and my ex mother in law who was deemed unfit back in 2007 when my kids were removed from HIS home because his girlfriends kids were sexually and physically hurting my children. They were in foster care for over 7 months and they were returned to him.. So, meanwhile, we have had issues with my youngest Alexis. She is now 10 and I had her tested and she has reactive attachment disorder, ADHD, Conduct Disorder, Sensory Processing Disorder, Auditory Processing Disorder, possibly Autism and bipolar. My ex had her in cousneling after I tormented him about it but I didn't know where or when. He told the cousnlor that I didn't want to be in her life. He also told the school I didn't want a part in my daughters life at school. I have them all summer and every other weekend and holidays. Ive tried taking him back to court, theres so much chaos in my home. she is constantly destroying my home, her and her siblings cant or are inable to get along. A few weeks ago, she stole her sisters phone and downloaded men on men porn, steals things, hides food and her siblings things. My son has an aggression issue. Last week, he tried punching me in the face when I made him mad. I moved and he ended up punching the steel door and breaking his hand. Shes seeing theses things that he does...my ex doesn't care and only wants the kids to control me. I'm so frustrated. Theres more but i'll spare you currently..