Please help. My name is Jessica, I'm a 29 year old single mommy to two little boys. CT age 4.5 recently diagnosed with ODD, ADHD and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). I also have a 3 year old (GT) who is starting to emulate big brother's behaviors, but acts perfectly "normal" when brother is not around. A little background, CT was kicked out of preschool a year ago (at age 3) for agressive behavior towards other children. I took him to his peditrician who diagnosed him ADHD, but too young to medicate. Sent us on our way. I got him back into preschool and he was kicked out again just a couple of months ago for the same thing. He was already on thin ice with the school when he threw a toy at a teacher and split open her eye! They kicked him out on the spot, leaving me with no where to take him, and home from work while I figured it out. Being a single mom with no financial help from his father, this worked a hole in our bank account. I was able to find a stay at home lady to watch him, but it's not doing him any good gearing up for kindergarten this August. He EXTREMELY intelligent. I mean it... ready for Harvard. But... way behind socially and behaviorally. I couldn't get him an appointment to see a psychologist for 2 1/2 months! So, I had to get creative and get my boy some help. I ended up taking him to the emergency room and talking to the dr on call. They were able to see the immediate need and I've since gotten him reffered to a psychologist who reffered him to a psychiatrist. He now sees a psychologist once a week and a psychiatrist once a month for medication. He's on 1 mg of resperidone as well as depikene. He's about to start kinder, and I'm so affraid that he'll be kicked out with-in the first week. Getting him and IEP or 540 is near impossible in our school district. I know it's because they do not want to set aside the funding in their already stretched budget. To make matters worse, the district just fired all of the aids and is raising class sizes. Just the thought of him in all-day kinder with 25-28 kids, with no aid (and no nap) scares me. He'll never make it. He couldn't even sit for his psychologist for 5 mins before getting up at 2 1/2 mins and hitting me! I need some encouragement and possible state resources?