I am 45 years old, married 16 years. We have two children. Oldest daughter (19) is my biological child and husband adopted her after marriage. We have a younger daughter together. I found this site the other day when I was looking up some information on ODD (difficult child was disagnosed with ODD and depression 3 years ago). I have read some of the posts my heart goes out to all of you. I thought my life was the only ONE like this. I started to type up all that has happened with difficult child in the past 5 years and I got overwhelmed trying to type it all out.