Well since my son moved out the beginning of January. He moved in with his addict father. He went on his own we did not throw him out and we told him he could come back if it didn’t work out. Well starting the day that he moved he has not treating me very well, yelling at me almost evertime I see him and be just plain disrespectful. Last night at 8:30 he called to say that he needed to move home because he couldn’t make rent because of course his job has been screwing him over not giving him enough hours (they were cutting his hours since before Christmas so this isn’t new). I told him he could come home but that I would not tolerate the disrespect or him bringing drugs in my house (after he left I found some shrooms and pot paraphernalia in his room) Well he pitched a fit and yelled at me and ranted and raved before hanging up on me. We exchanged a few texts where he basically tells me that both his father and I have disappointed him and a lot of nonsense that is I’m guessing is supposed to give me responsibility for why his life is going the way it is. He ended up saying maybe he should live at a shelter and then said he was going to just sell his guitar and to forget it he is t coming home. He also accused me of being overly aggressive and that it has rubbed off on him which I’m really stumped over because he is the one yelling and screaming at me while I try to remain calm. I’m so worried about him but what can I do? I would have liked to sit down and have a conversation about him coming home but I was put on the spot, he wanted to move home today so I felt I had to lay it all on the line right then.