This has been an awful weekend with difficult child 2. He has been agressive like he hasn't been in 12 weeks. He changed because he is highly motivated by the behavior program he is in this summer. They have rewards coming out his ears that he has to earn by good behavior. The fact that the physical aggression is the only thing that changed lets me know that he can control the physical aggression, but nothing else. The program is ending this week. There is no way we could do as many rewards or the peer pressure to be good that the program does. At least now I know what he can and can't control, but I feel like I'm back at square one with him. Plus, I think the amount of effort it takes him to not be violent is huge.