I just went OFF and lost my mind at husband mostly, thank you a bit. yelling, asking if they WANT me to be unable to funcion all week as I am the ONLY one other than J gtting ANYTHING done?
Why? husband told thank you to spray febreze on a cloud of dust. Febreze is not a magic dust poof-away spray. It treats odors. The smell of it (stench to my nose) makes me incredibly ill. I am posting because I am losing my mind and it is better than interacting with husband and thank you right now. My head is killingme, andwill for atleast 24 hrs, thanks to the febreze.
I keep throwing the febreze away or giving it away. I have specifically told the entire family, as a group and individuals, thatw e do NOT use febreze nomatter what because it makes me sick. That if you spray it and I end up vomiting, it is YOUR fault. husband STILL keeps buying it. he has thank you spray it so that I cannot 'yell' at husband. WRONG! Esp when I hear him tell thank you to spray it.
If some item really smelled that bad, take it outside to spray it. let it air a day or so then bring it n. ESPECIALLY DON'T SPRAY IT RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE MAIN AIR INTAKE FOR THE A/C WHLE YOU HAVE IT RUNNING!
On top of this, I have used birthday $ and xmas $ to find essential oils that don't make me sick and to make cleaning sprays and good smelling sprays to use instead of air fresheners and stinky sprays like febreze. I make them because I do feel bad my kids can't wear regular perfume or scented deodorant or whatever. But I guess I am not good enough for husband to bother to care about if I am sick or not. cause lately that sure s what it seems like.
I am jus so mad, because htis is TOTALLY preventable but it means that they have to listen and stop pulling koi out of the garbage. How hard is that, esp after 20+ yrs of marriage or, for thank you, all his life of dealing iwth this??? I cannot help but see this as at least somewhat deliberate and totally passive aggressive on husband's part.
please keep me from sayng somethng vicious I won't mean in a few days. Cause I could REALLY hurt him and I don't want to, not really. But it would be EASY.
Why? husband told thank you to spray febreze on a cloud of dust. Febreze is not a magic dust poof-away spray. It treats odors. The smell of it (stench to my nose) makes me incredibly ill. I am posting because I am losing my mind and it is better than interacting with husband and thank you right now. My head is killingme, andwill for atleast 24 hrs, thanks to the febreze.
I keep throwing the febreze away or giving it away. I have specifically told the entire family, as a group and individuals, thatw e do NOT use febreze nomatter what because it makes me sick. That if you spray it and I end up vomiting, it is YOUR fault. husband STILL keeps buying it. he has thank you spray it so that I cannot 'yell' at husband. WRONG! Esp when I hear him tell thank you to spray it.
If some item really smelled that bad, take it outside to spray it. let it air a day or so then bring it n. ESPECIALLY DON'T SPRAY IT RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE MAIN AIR INTAKE FOR THE A/C WHLE YOU HAVE IT RUNNING!
On top of this, I have used birthday $ and xmas $ to find essential oils that don't make me sick and to make cleaning sprays and good smelling sprays to use instead of air fresheners and stinky sprays like febreze. I make them because I do feel bad my kids can't wear regular perfume or scented deodorant or whatever. But I guess I am not good enough for husband to bother to care about if I am sick or not. cause lately that sure s what it seems like.
I am jus so mad, because htis is TOTALLY preventable but it means that they have to listen and stop pulling koi out of the garbage. How hard is that, esp after 20+ yrs of marriage or, for thank you, all his life of dealing iwth this??? I cannot help but see this as at least somewhat deliberate and totally passive aggressive on husband's part.
please keep me from sayng somethng vicious I won't mean in a few days. Cause I could REALLY hurt him and I don't want to, not really. But it would be EASY.