OK so Ive got this detachment thing down. Im going on a year and a half without talking to my daughter. I am very happy in fact I just got engaged to a wonderful man! But the old familiar guilty feelings sneak in at times and I wonder....where she is what is she doing is she ok? And since Ive been really busy with my life change i dont get to see my grandson very often, and when i do get him my boyfriend is with me and i think my grandson resents the fact that he doesnt have me to himself anymore. I worry so much about the little guy. He recently lost his grandpa. And i am really his only grandparent now. I am having a wonderful time, my guy took me to new england for my birthday and thats where he proposed. I want to enjoy my life with him, but I just cant shake the guilt sometimes.