Kanga Koi

Discussion in 'Parent Emeritus' started by JJJ, Feb 10, 2013.

  1. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    Kanga has yet another plan to move out of treatment and into a house with a couple of guys. She wants that goal added to her treatment plan. :hamwheelsmilf:

    She also did not get the job she applied for because when they called to invite her back for a second interview, she was rude and hostile on the phone. She is claiming that she thought it was some guy that was harassing her. More accurately, she was either drunk or high. She figures it doesn't matter since her SSI got straightened out.
  2. AnnieO

    AnnieO Shooting from the Hip

    Hugs... wow. I just don't understand her... :sigh:
  3. buddy

    buddy New Member

  4. recoveringenabler

    recoveringenabler Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Oh Boy, I'm sorry this continues for you...........
  5. rejectedmom

    rejectedmom New Member

    She really doesn't have a clue. I am so sorry JJJ. -RM
  6. DaisyFace

    DaisyFace Love me...Love me not

    Oh my word! And I assume these men would be sexual partners...?

  7. dstc_99

    dstc_99 Well-Known Member

  8. DDD

    DDD Well-Known Member

    How sad. DDD
  9. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    Yes, and I don't even what to know why she is always moving in with TWO men...yuck.
  10. cubsgirl

    cubsgirl Well-Known Member

    Did she want pregnancy to be part of the treatment plan too! UGH - hopefully you can stay away from this koi.
  11. Oh ugh! They won't put that in her treatment plan, will they? Given her history I certainly hope not. Sheesh.
  12. StressedM0mma

    StressedM0mma Active Member

    Ugh. ANd Blech to the 2 men. I wuld hope the treatment team has enough sense not to add this. But, they are the ones teaching her to drive. Yes?
  13. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    Both the desire to get pregnant and the plan to move in with a couple of guys will be in the treatment plan in the "client input" section. There will not be any services designed to support those goals. I hope.
  14. HaoZi

    HaoZi CD Hall of Fame

    Can you hear my head hitting the desk from there? Oy. and ouch.
  15. DDD

    DDD Well-Known Member

    Good Grief! I have problems of my own but "goodness gracious". It's hard to grasp. Hugs DDD
  16. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    I found out more info. It is two couples -- her and her "boyfriend" and his brother + girlfriend. The boys mom sounds heavily involved in these plans.

    I have a sneaky suspicion that it was the boys' mother I spoke with weeks ago. Whether she is actually the Residential Treatment Center (RTC)'s former employee or that was just a lie, who knows.

    Mental health staffing tomorrow and Kanga has not "univited" me, so I'm teleconferencing into it. I'll update you in the afternoon.
  17. InsaneCdn

    InsaneCdn Well-Known Member

    ... you know, JJJ, only the parent of a difficult child would understand that backwards logic, but... WE know what you mean.
  18. DammitJanet

    DammitJanet Well-Known Member Staff Member

    You know, after being at enough staffing's where goals are written I can almost see how this goal is going to look on paper.

    Kanga will work towards moving in to XXX Grandiose Lane by not being caught in the presence of Boy Y for N number of days in 2 weeks.
  19. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    What a waste of an hour. What a waste of a million dollars of treatment. She is still a self-centered, mean (insert bad word of your choice). I'm at the point where I really hope she leaves treatment. Just goes away.

    SHE THREATENED TO CONTACT EEYORE AS SOON AS HE TURNS 18. Someone told her that as soon as he is 18, she doesn't have to listen to us anymore. I had full momma bear emotional response to that. I know he will tell her to leave him alone but the emotional pain he will go through isn't fair.

    Her plans for adult life are delusional at best. Girl will end up working the streets.
  20. AnnieO

    AnnieO Shooting from the Hip

    I just don't know what to say... What a witch.