Last night difficult child was really tired, but so needed a shower. Said she was going to take one. (She SMELLED!) Then husband went up to give her her medsd and she pulled the I'll do it in the morning. He just told her fine, but you need to follow through with this in order for me to begin to trust you. Well, imagine our utter surprise when she left her room, and got in on her own. I thought I had died!! (How completely sad that a shower can evoke that kind of emotion.) Was kind of hoping this morning would be better, but no such luck as of yet. She SWEARS she will be on time. I hate the constant panic surrounding her. I really wish that husband would stay home and help with her in the mornings. He seems to "get her" better, and she responds better to him. But, he has other priorities. I know it is wrong, but I have done all of the begging I can. If I could figure out a way to get him to help I would. It would definitely lessen my daily panic attack.