Ok, Im not talking dating( who has time for that?) But I guess we could throw that in! Friends either sex, would you prefer them to have had kids or loved ones who have been through what we all have been through with our kids? I know I been thinking about this, I mean, before it was so easy to be friends with any and everyone of every walk of life. Im not judgmental ( try not to be because I dont like it done to me!!!) But seriously, with the drama, the experience, the possible canceling "hang outs" or couples nights or whatever, who better to understand then other parents like us? Not saying others wouldn't care or try to understand, I just been finding it easier to talk to parents with kids with "issues" whether mental or physical. A thought... is for those who dont "get it" will eventually "run" for the hills and think we are full of of it?!! I don't know if Im making sense!! Im just curious, Im trying to get my confidence and trust back up and make some new friends, but, Im just thinking of the definite days or nights there will be issues, and there may be many! ( Hopefully not but you never know) Some of my experience -I have lost friends with "normal" kids because of these issues.