In April when I lent difficult child my kindle I had to set up an email account in order for him to use it. He apparently uses this same account for his Facebook. I have the password to the email account and I occasionally check it. Actually - who am I kidding - I check it daily. I know - invasion of privacy, but it is what it is. Anyway - apparently difficult child told one of his "friends" that he could come out across country and live with him! This is one of the "friends" who used him every month for all of his money/benefits and was a big part of why difficult child was kicked out of his motel room here in NJ. The kid is supposedly leaving tonight! And according to the messages back and forth between him and difficult child my dad is ok with it. Hmmmmm. So here's my dilemma - do I interfere and call difficult child out on this (and also expose the fact that I've been snooping) or do I stay completely out of it and let whatever happens happen? What would you do at this point??