I am sorry, Serenity.It's like I'm the only one he won't confide in.
Why did they not tell you? With all of this drama by your sister, why did she not bother to at least let your husband know, when there was contact after your accident?My sister and brother had already figured out he had lung cancer long ago, but he had refused to see a doctor until now
I hate this for you.But this was only a surprise to one person...me.
We try to protect our Dad's because that is all we have. When all the time they could have really protected us from our mothers, and did not. They did not protect themselves or us. And that is the reality. They went along with it. I am sorry for you and for each of us.
Your Dad is only doing as well as he can. I am sorry it is not what you deserve, that he cannot do better. You always deserved better and do, now.
He is who he is. I am so sad for us they cannot be better.