I have been a follower for many years and have posted a few times regarding my now 29 year old daughter. She, her husband and 2 small children currently live with me (long story) and I am needing some advice regarding my 3 year old grandson. He is very bright but has a few behavioral issues that really concern me. One being potty training which has not been going too well. He just turned 3 in June and I know that he is still very young but the big issue is that when he poops in his pull-up he has started taking it off and playing with the poop. He has done this about 4 times within the last 2 weeks. One night he was in my room, took his pull-up off and started smearing poop on my bed! We were downstairs and started to smell something before we realized what he was doing. I wasn't too concerned the first time he did this but since he has done this several times I am really concerned. This just started to be a problem about a month ago. Background on Mom and Dad. Both are bipolar and Mom is also ADHD. Grandson is definitely showing signs of ADHD but Autism has been ruled out. I'm just not sure who to go to for help with this before it gets out of hand. Any advice would be welcomed!