Sorry for another post. I need to draw strength from somewhere. My son will be leaving his treatment program next week. So far he is refusing to do sober living. He originally talked about going back to an IOP he was once in but then left. However, since he has no family/friends where he is, he is upset because one of the IOP nights is family night and now he is refusing to go to that IOP due to it being a waste of his time the one night since he has no f***ing family there.... The other IOP he was looking at will cost him roughly $30 in uber costs each night which is about $90 a week. He has made excuses before about using the uber and the cost. He used that excuse to go to AA meetings previously. So as it stands, he will be leaving treatment and going back to his apartment alone with-in steps of a bar. He will assume that I will pay to have his pet returned to him after it was boarded over an hour away which when I say no will set him off. I am tired of this. He will be alone for the holidays which is a trigger in itself. I know I have to just let be. I want to vomit when he calls me. I can't stand hearing his voice. I dread next weekend when he leaves the program. Asking for prayers that he agrees to sober living for a few months at least. I have to set boundaries but what should they be?