I am new here and have just been hanging out reading all of the posts and taking in all of the stories. I am dealing with a 32 year old bipolar who will not medicate and doesn't believe there is anything wrong with him. He is verbally abusive and has made threats so he can no longer stay in our house. over the years he has stayed with us but this is no longer an option. I have paid for the last month for various rent by the week flea bag motels but now he says he has been blacklisted and cannot stay there although he can't imagine why. I am pretty sure it is his manic behaviors. His dad, my ex wants nothing more to do with him, nor does his brother who also has tried to help. he just showed up at my house for the second time today ranting and raving about how no one helps him or loves him and how everything is my fault because I was a terrible mother. This scared my 12 year and now he is worried the 32 yr old will hurt himself. I am so furious with him! he comes over and causes nothing but drama but won't take any responsibility for his situation. I can't let him traumatize the 12 yr old like that. I feel for him and he has no one left that even will talk to him but it can't be okay for him to terrorize us with threats of harming himself. I told him he is no longer welcome here and if I had to I. Would call the police but now I am worried he will do something to himself, I have called the police in the past but he knows what to say to them and nothing is ever done! I am worried but totally frustrated!