I was referred here from a friend at a deal site board,lol. I don't know what all your abbreviations are yet but here is my issue. I have a 5yr old son who has been a handful since he was 1! He always hated strangers to the point when they got to close he would spit on them or just try to hit or grab at them. He started swearing by 18 months of age. He would pick up the slightest thing like I was watching ER and they said (in a normal sentence, no emphasis) the B word. He said it the rest of the night over and over at not even 2yrs old! The Dr said to ignore him that he was just looking for a reaction.....that so did not work. The hitting, spitting thing went on until a little past 3. He is now a very active child, he learned to ride a bike without training wheels and swim(above & under water) all in the summer he was 3 1/2. We think it was a mix of his high activity level and he has no fear at all. He loves video games and has beat several of them by himself including Lego Batman for Wii. He no longer swears (much) and he is responding more to the fear of being in trouble when I speak but he does things he knows he is not allowed. He still hits alot. He has trouble playing with and getting along with kids his age and plays very well with kids 7 and up and the funny thing is they don't mind playing with him.He speaks very well for his age and even though he isn't doing things such as reading he is very smart as far as knowing things most 5yr olds don't. He has a bad temper. And will sit ad watch TV shows such as Suite Life, Hannah Montana but will act up, jump, scream(occasionally covering his ears while doing so) etc during a commercial. He also will not just sit and watch a movie but question everything. He needs to know answers to things most kids, even most older kids would not really think about. I don't think it's ADHD as he can be good and we have even been on 2 7 day Disney Cruises (10 days total gone) and he was great! He even went to the kids clubs and played great when at home he doesn't leave my side and has no sitters! I'm thinking it might be behavorial but I don't know. I do have 3 older kids, DS14, DD12(receptive/expressive language disorder possible ADD...I was in a wreck while pregnant with-her)& DD9. They are all honor roll students....even DD12 who spends most of her time in "lala land",lmao. But none of them ever had any behavior issues. I'm not sure what else to say that may be pertinent. I had 3kids then remarried and had him, so he is the baby and the other kids go to their dads or grams occasionally so he also gets some only child time. He can really make his dads blood boil.......he looks just like his dad and from what I hear husband was a handful as a child but no diagnoses. Thanks for any advice and for reading such a long post!!!