Hi, have posted on the general forum but will post here too. My 5 year old daughter is very difficult, and waiting to be accessed. She has most of the signs of ODD. -temper tantrums daily lasting anything from 5 mins to 2 hours -threatens to kill me kick my head in. -pulls faces and sticks her tounge out -swears in temper -hits kicks and punches in temper -is only like this to adults and not just me -tried to smash windows -eats like a baby -wets herself daily -blames outbursts on others -finds it funny if me and my husband end up argueing over her -very bright at school -has poor motor skills -can keep it together at nursery (2 hours) but not sure she will cope fulltime. HAs been rude to teachers and they noted she refuses to accept punishment. -has spat at me -refuses to do anything I ask -wont take medicine -is not hyperactive -causes big scenes when shopping -delays going out even if it is fun day for her -has started to do babyish things like emptying shampoos and toothpastes everywhere -and recently started stealing silly things. We are in England and it can take up to 6 months to get appointments. Also we are not as clues up on ODD over here, so struggleing to get anywhere fast. I am at my wits end! I have a 12 year old daughter who is like an angel, and a baby of 7 months. Any help suggestions on what else it could be or anything else I would be grateful.