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difficult child has always had issues with any tension or disagreements, even if it does not involve him. Nothing new, however . . ..
I have been told twice in the last week that difficult child becomes very angry at the person someone else is mad at. husband mad at me - I become the evil person; husband frustrated with Cousin A, Cousin A becomes difficult child's target. "Mom, I get mad at the person who is making problems, it doesn't matter what it's about."
Boy, if he could figure out how to change this thinking, maybe it might be a real step forward. Just imagine, I don't have to be in trouble with difficult child for an entire evening because husband is irritated that I forget to put a letter in the mailbox. Perhaps easy child could stop being viewed as a complete idiot by difficult child just because he get's corrected for normal kid stuff.
Any thoughts or suggestions about how to approach? I will bring up at next doctor appointment. Or is this potentially just made-up? I really don't know.
I have been told twice in the last week that difficult child becomes very angry at the person someone else is mad at. husband mad at me - I become the evil person; husband frustrated with Cousin A, Cousin A becomes difficult child's target. "Mom, I get mad at the person who is making problems, it doesn't matter what it's about."
Boy, if he could figure out how to change this thinking, maybe it might be a real step forward. Just imagine, I don't have to be in trouble with difficult child for an entire evening because husband is irritated that I forget to put a letter in the mailbox. Perhaps easy child could stop being viewed as a complete idiot by difficult child just because he get's corrected for normal kid stuff.
Any thoughts or suggestions about how to approach? I will bring up at next doctor appointment. Or is this potentially just made-up? I really don't know.