Hello everyone. Found this site from Google. My son is 4 1/2 and has been newly diagnosed with ODD. He yells, screams, hits, kicks, lies, and deliberately does things that are against the rules. I don't know what to do anymore. We're currently in therapy (MSW #2 now...) and we don't seem to be getting any where. We're supposed to be ignoring bad behaviors, but I simply can't allow that. He hits and kicks his 2 year old sister. He STOMPS up stairs, and he can't be allowed to throw those kinds of fits because the neighbors complain to management. I haven't wanted to be around my 4 year old in a long time. I feel like a horribe mother for not wanting to be around my son, but it is what it is. I need some help because I am at my wits end.