RBMom, this is the hardest thing any of us will ever have to do. We are all devastated by asking our adult kids to leave our homes. Please get some support for yourself before Saturday so you are armed with backup. We need all the support we can get to get through the kinds of choices we have to make.
Is your son aware of shelters in your town? There are usually food banks as well. He can avail himself to resources, he doesn't have to live under a bridge, although some of our difficult child's do that too.
Hang in there, we're here for you. Sending warm wishes and hugs for your hurting heart.
There are food banks in my town, but no shelters. That's one of the things that's really bothering me- wondering where he will sleep.