BusynMember
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For anyone who is still interested, here is what is going on.
I did not go with Jumper to see J. play football last week. She went with two friends and J's stepmother stared at her the entire time. Jumper told her friends not to look at her.
Later in the week, Jumper wore her best friend's football jersey to her own school's game. They are like brother and sister. She put a picture of herself wearing the jersey on her FB page. J's loony stepmother looked at Jumper's FB page then sent messages to J. on HIS FB (because she sends letters and doesn't talk) telling him that Jumper likes another boy and here was the proof, blah, blah, blah. She was going to break his heart and she was only telling him for his own good....what a nut. I told Jumper to block her FB, but it kind of spooked me out that this stepmother bothered to look at all.
Just when things seem to be a bit smoother, step comes up with something new and her new thing now is that since J. comes to our house every other week, Jumper has to go to her house every other week. In spite of all the horrible things she has said about Jumper, and all the time she had to get to know Jumper (and didn't talk to her), she suddenly wants to get to know her. I smell something fishy. On top of that, she wants ME to drive her there. J. can't pick her up.
Maybe I'm being overprotective, but I told her there was no way she could go to that house until I spoke to this woman first and laid down the law. I'm not even sure THAT would do it for me. I want to be there while she is there. I don't trust this couple to keep my daughter safe. His house is out in the middle of nowhere, which is creepy to me too. I just can't let her go there alone.
Jumper backtracked a bit and told me that she isn't afraid of Step and that Step isn't psycho or anything. I told her, I thought she was unstable and whether she was scared or not, the answer is...no. Not without my conditions. Jumper, being a good easy child, did not argue with me about it, but I figure she will bring it up again later in the week.
I love this boy she's dating...they don't get any better...but I'm so done with his crazy parents. I hate having to deal with this. I know both kids genuinely like each other and are not having sex together. But I am ready to tell her that enough is enough.
I will write more as the story progresses. Right now, all is quiet. But my stomach is twisting. This is seriously giving me the creepos. I have never known anyone who does the batty things that SM does.
I did not go with Jumper to see J. play football last week. She went with two friends and J's stepmother stared at her the entire time. Jumper told her friends not to look at her.
Later in the week, Jumper wore her best friend's football jersey to her own school's game. They are like brother and sister. She put a picture of herself wearing the jersey on her FB page. J's loony stepmother looked at Jumper's FB page then sent messages to J. on HIS FB (because she sends letters and doesn't talk) telling him that Jumper likes another boy and here was the proof, blah, blah, blah. She was going to break his heart and she was only telling him for his own good....what a nut. I told Jumper to block her FB, but it kind of spooked me out that this stepmother bothered to look at all.
Just when things seem to be a bit smoother, step comes up with something new and her new thing now is that since J. comes to our house every other week, Jumper has to go to her house every other week. In spite of all the horrible things she has said about Jumper, and all the time she had to get to know Jumper (and didn't talk to her), she suddenly wants to get to know her. I smell something fishy. On top of that, she wants ME to drive her there. J. can't pick her up.
Maybe I'm being overprotective, but I told her there was no way she could go to that house until I spoke to this woman first and laid down the law. I'm not even sure THAT would do it for me. I want to be there while she is there. I don't trust this couple to keep my daughter safe. His house is out in the middle of nowhere, which is creepy to me too. I just can't let her go there alone.
Jumper backtracked a bit and told me that she isn't afraid of Step and that Step isn't psycho or anything. I told her, I thought she was unstable and whether she was scared or not, the answer is...no. Not without my conditions. Jumper, being a good easy child, did not argue with me about it, but I figure she will bring it up again later in the week.
I love this boy she's dating...they don't get any better...but I'm so done with his crazy parents. I hate having to deal with this. I know both kids genuinely like each other and are not having sex together. But I am ready to tell her that enough is enough.
I will write more as the story progresses. Right now, all is quiet. But my stomach is twisting. This is seriously giving me the creepos. I have never known anyone who does the batty things that SM does.