Those of you who have bio difficult child's. Did you have normal pregnancies or difficult pregnancies? If you also have a easy child was the pregnancy different? When difficult child was a newborn / infant..was the baby difficult? I had a perfect preganacy with easy child. If it wasn't for the obvious big belly, I would of never known. difficult child - It was 12 years later so I was older. I was sick from day one. Didn't stop at 3 months, was sick every singel day the entire pregnancy. difficult child was very jaundice. Even after we came home had to go back everyday to get his biliruben checked. Along came colic. The baby never slept. Along came ear infections. He would get ear infections while he was ON antibiotics. (ear infections overlaped with colic). I remember once putting him in his crib, calling the pediatrician and just saying, "make him stop". difficult child lost 30% of hearing due to fluid by 9 months, so had tubes put in at that time.