difficult child 1 threatened to put out difficult child 3's eyes. I was shocked. He has been doing great. He has been working hard for hours at a time to earn the right to play starcraft. He hasn't lashed out at anyone in weeks. We've gotten into a routine where he works and gets rewarded for it. Then he thought that difficult child 3 had broken part of the computer he uses for starcraft and he turned nasty. difficult child 1 doesn't rage anymore. He gets very quiet, his voice gets soft so I can't hear; he is sneaky with threatening the other kids. We are right back to difficult child 1 being in my sight or earshot at all times. I get nervous if difficult child 1's voice is low so I can't hear what he is saying. Then I get very scared and start yelling at him to speak up. Then I feel guilty for yelling. I've cut back on the computer time. Tonight instead of having the chance to earn starcraft he got to play with his siblings while I sat by and watched.