I dont even know where to start. First of all, we got the report back and it wasnt as good as we originally thought. It said he was developmentally the age of a 23 month old. Sammy will be turning 3 on the 11th. He was a year behind when we tested him 6 months ago and it was thought that he would pretty much be caught up. I dont know what else to do. He does therapy, we are getting him tested through the school district when they actually set up the appointment. We are looking into theraputic schools. We have done therapy for 2 years now. His therapist is someone we trust completly and he doesnt mince words. He said the problem with the theraputic school for Sammy is that Sammys problems other than language are more quirks than actual occupational things and they wont really know what to do with him. The other problem is if there are kids in the class who grunt and have no language, Sammy will mock them and stop speaking. (He has done this before) Now to the other part the rips my heart out. He is so awful with me. He hits, kicks, screams, throws headbanging tantrums and is flat out defiant. I was away for 3 days, just came back today and he was a perfect angel for my husband. If I go out for an hour or 2 he is always perfect for my husband. Its not like my husband spends no time with him. He spends all the time in the world with him. I came home and he went back to his normal beating routine with me. I just want to hug him and play with him and be with him. IT breaks my heart that he acts like this with me. I dont get it..noone gets it!