Those who followed my post , know my 16 year old son was locked up in juvenile detention for 4 months, he came out & lived with his grandparents while him& dad attended counseling to work on there relationship. Less then 2 weeks when he got out , he was back to his old ways, smoking weed, we assume pills to because his behavior changed. Stole money from his grandparents, took off everyday while on house arrest. Fast forward to today he had 3 separate court dates, was removed from grandparents home for there safety, went to live with his dad , starting doing the same thing, after many calls to probation officer, and juvenile system, he is back in custody & acourse blames everyone. I told him over the phone how I felt about his behavior & how he treated his grandparents & he hung up on me . He hung up on his to dad to after he was screaming orders to dad about what he needs to do to get him out. Right now I know juvenile detention is the safest place for him , he shows no signs of wanting to change .