Matty's Mummy
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7yr old again.
He seems to think we are all bad well he says we are. you are all mean, this is a terrible family for me...
So tonight he has just came out not able to sleep, telling me he was daydreaming at night, he said I was at the river with Dad and younger brother, I threw dads sunglasses into the river, then I pushed Dad in he was crying and really upset. So I was thinking he was upset because he was having bad thoughts and figured its Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) like how people with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) have bad thoughts of hurting themselves or others and then the person with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is horrified and scared that they could think such terrible things.
Then I said to him, well you dont want to hurt Dad it was just something like a dream when you are awake
He said no the water was deep then he burst into tears again. I said to him, oh so you are worried cause Dad might not get out of the water, and he said yes.
Then I said you dont want to hurt Dad so dont worry he said I do hurt you I said No you dont he said yes I hit you and stuff he has hit me. And then he said and you are all mean to me, I do want to hurt you, then he stopped crying an had a kind of wired smirk and walked off.
So was that the Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) type and then he was just being a smart ass when he smirked and walked off or is it more?
This morning and most mornings, leaving for school is a drama, he never wants to go... then we recorded the show he was watching we were on our way walking to school, he starts telling me how mean I am and then when I said well you have to go to school he yelled at me to shut up. I told him not to speck to me like that and so he didnt talk to me at all walked into school and didnt say goodbye nothing, I didnt chase after him for that goodbye either. He was fine after school all was forgotten...
Also a friend asked me just last week, if I though my son was thinking that her child sets out to upset him. I said yes I do think that and I think that our son thinks we are all only about making his life hell. We are a pretty laid back relaxed family. Sure I can yell when he is yelling at me, but he is the only child at home that is like this.
He seems to think our whole purpose in life is to annoy him. L
Its late at night here, I am away for two day if I can log in at the motel I will so pls send me messages as I might be able to read and not reply.
Im thinking we need serious help, but than again I dont want to read more into it than what it might be.