let me start by saying... AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ok, so difficult child I is home, he and his girlfriend were living in a motel after finally being thrown out by her mom (the one who was buying them cigarettes every day), well they ran out of $, shocker being neither one of them really works. So yes I (the one with "idiot" stamped on her forehead) went & picked him up after spending 5 hours @ ER with difficult child II who's sick as a dog and hasn't had his medications in 24 hours on top of that so you can guess what he's like! Driving difficult child I home I laid down ground rules................. no using house phone after 9PM (he doesn't have a cell anymore) no calling x-girlfriend (my granddaughter's Mother) no drugs or weapons allowed in house. no going in difficult child II's room or using his cell 1-3 night max. stay allowed so he'd better look for somewhere else to go. He agrees after mouthing off about how he thinks I think he's a piece of **** and a dead beat dad..... I threaten to kick him out of car 3 x's.... so he of course gets here, dumps his junk on the ds floor, calls his homeboys and heads out to "sell" his incense to the local dollar stores at 8:50 pm @ night. So now it's 11PM & I am ready for bed, well I notice house phone is missing...I call it and I hear it ring but can't find it....after calling it 8 times, I finally locate it, it's hidden in the wall unit behind DVD's on a shelf! The ^&%$&^&*() hid the phone! Did I mention he's almost 20, has a criminal record, no degree, no license, no job (except selling incense and male enhancement pills) and he has a beautiful 4 month old daughter that he is denying and has never laid eyes on????!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry I know, I am major ranting right now......but when he shows up here @ 1am stoned or drunk and knocking on my window, I am going to put the pillow over my head....why? WHY? do I keep finding myself in this position? WHY can't he just.... just.....ugh!