michelle75
New Member
Hi, I'm a mother of a 10yr old boy and a 5yr old girl and stepmother of 2 that we gained custody of in July, my 9 yr old step daughter has spent the last 5 yrs with her meth addict mother who although is married had an affair with a known sex offender who molested my step daughter at age(8) , when I met my step daughter who was 3 at the time had a bad habit of touching herself my husband and I thought we had gotten it stopped. From the day she came to us she always had discharge in her underwear we had her examined thinking she had a infection she did not, in November my 5yr olds babysitter called me in a panic to tell me she caught my daughter touching herself when I spoke to my daughter she told me that my stepdaughter had taught her, after speaking to my stepdaughter she admitted she touchs herself, she does it all the time even at school, she is already behind in school and now she's missing class time to go do this, the school has to send someone with her to the bathroom to make sure she doesn't do this but that doesn't stop her, she does this mulitiple times a day, this child has alot of problems including compulsive liar, stealing, masterbation, ADD, I don't know what to do anymore, the stress is out of control, I'm sick daily ( I never get sick) I'm cranky. I'm afraid this child is going to change the behavior in the other children, I know this child has had a bad life but at what point does she need to be held acountable for her actions. I really need some support before I lose my mind