Hi everyone! I need some help! My 8 year old daughter has always been a very difficult child to manage. I have read SO many parenting books and most recently tried incorporating Love and Logic into my daily regimen. I am hoping if I list some of her behaviors, etc ......someone can help me and lead me in the right direction with medical help! Thank you in advance! Never takes a "no" as NO! Constantly argues with-mom and dad Doesn't seem to understand her actions Appears as if she is not listening Likes to annoy others.....smiles! Needs constant attention/activity Bullies younger sibling Never admits to mistakes/bad behavior ~ blames others! Hates to lose Not interested in anything examples...summer camp, sports,etc... Has headaches often Obsessed with- Fairness When told "no" she will often say " I am doing it anyway" and slam a door/cupboard, etc. Throws items when mad Tells me she hates me, an idiot, a brat Often refers to herself as a stupid idiot Steals items from school Controls friends.....never open to their ideas Always bored........eats a lot!!! Like all day! Not sure if this is ODD???? Maybe??? Please help!