We had a large family gathering today. Toward the end my great-niece came by. She had gotten married this morning. She is 19---the same age as Jana. Her father is in prison. She married a 31 year old man she has known for 2 weeks. He has 3 children an 11 year old girl, a 10 year old boy, and an 18 month old. My sister (her grandmother) was/is devastated. And all I could think was "Thank-you Lord." There but by the grace of God goes I.