So he's been very much looking forward to his large income tax refund. He expected us to hand it over without delay. The thing is, we suspect he has a large credit card bill and is buying certain legal, but very expensive and questionable supplements. We have no concrete proof of this, just some circunstantial evidence. He has his own account that his paycheck goes into, and I handle his SSI account as his representative trustee, so he doesn't see that one. We told him we are willing to give him the refund but HONESTY and fortrightness is required. He's trying to manipulate us to the nth degree, saying that if he doesn't get the refund no questions asked it will set him back, this was a surprise that we weren't going to just hand over the refund, he was just starting to feel better and make plans, etc. etc. He really doesn't know how much he's getting back. Some of it by right will be kept to pay rent etc. as his SSI check doesn't pay all the rent. This is part of the reason why he was buying his groceries at Walgreens when he was picking up his prescriptions. So sneaky. I don't mind giving him money for outings, etc. but I just don't trust him this time. Help us stay strong.