happymomof2
New Member
difficult child's story:
difficult child was walking into cafeteria yesterday and heard a teach say "hey" but he didn't know he was talking to him. difficult child realized he still had his hat on and went to take it off. Teach walks up behind him and says "I don't think so" yanks his hoody of his jacket and takes his hat.
The only problem I have with that is the yanking of the hoody. Why do these teachers feel the need to put there hands on him in any way, shape or form. Yes, if he was fighting and needed to be restrained - but I thought that was unnecessary. Teach said he could have hat back at the end of the day today.
Well difficult child always takes things one step further which gets him into trouble. End of day he refused to get on bus until he had his hat back. He was then sent to the "warden" so she could explain the "rules". Then he got a 0 for that class so he didn't make his day. One more day of not making his day and he will be back at yellow 10. At least they aren't slamming him back to red 1.
Also "warden" gave him a teddy bear to carry to bus - supposedly he can talk to this bear, punch this bear etc.... I got upset with that because I thought it degrading to make a 9th grader carry a bear. My son ask me not to say anything about that because it really didn't bother him.
Not saying he was innocent in this situation - he should not have worn his hat in cafeteria and he should not have refused to get on bus.
So I am a little upset with him and the yanking teacher. I sent a note on his point sheet asking for the name of this teacher and I will file a complaint or at least arrange a meeting with him.
Tired of all the petty little **** and just venting.
Thanks
difficult child was walking into cafeteria yesterday and heard a teach say "hey" but he didn't know he was talking to him. difficult child realized he still had his hat on and went to take it off. Teach walks up behind him and says "I don't think so" yanks his hoody of his jacket and takes his hat.
The only problem I have with that is the yanking of the hoody. Why do these teachers feel the need to put there hands on him in any way, shape or form. Yes, if he was fighting and needed to be restrained - but I thought that was unnecessary. Teach said he could have hat back at the end of the day today.
Well difficult child always takes things one step further which gets him into trouble. End of day he refused to get on bus until he had his hat back. He was then sent to the "warden" so she could explain the "rules". Then he got a 0 for that class so he didn't make his day. One more day of not making his day and he will be back at yellow 10. At least they aren't slamming him back to red 1.
Also "warden" gave him a teddy bear to carry to bus - supposedly he can talk to this bear, punch this bear etc.... I got upset with that because I thought it degrading to make a 9th grader carry a bear. My son ask me not to say anything about that because it really didn't bother him.
Not saying he was innocent in this situation - he should not have worn his hat in cafeteria and he should not have refused to get on bus.
So I am a little upset with him and the yanking teacher. I sent a note on his point sheet asking for the name of this teacher and I will file a complaint or at least arrange a meeting with him.
Tired of all the petty little **** and just venting.
Thanks