oh boy B just called from court. he has 30 min to decide if he takes the wreckless ticket which causes him to lose his job cause work can't insure him and he can't drive cars to test drive for problems..... (works as a mechanic) or lose his license for 30 days........... which means he can't test drive cars and get to school either. (this would be a good excuse to use for him to drop out of school - which was one of his suggestions- at least then it wouldn't come down to being my fault. see there's a happy thought for me!!! ) wow!!!!! he got caught doing a wheelie on cycle that's why he's in court. (Another wheelie cause the fractured toes & foot) i told him to keep the license and get some other job for awhile,at leaset he can get to school and then try to get another mechanic job. hard to pay bills when one doesn't have an income..................... holy sh%$%$%$!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! was gonna skip the parenting group this week in favor of the job hunt group i want to check out. may have to do them both.................. I'm glad there are finally consequences besides contrived ones we used to try and enforce when he was young. Except everything causes financial problems............... and he expects us as parents to help him out. More friction, more stress!!! Friday night he called to say he had just left Urgent care and now has a pulled ham string on the same leg as the fractured foot. Says he woke up in major pain when he tried to move his leg. He doesn't know how it happened. hmmmmmmmm?????? Nothing like being stuck between a rock and another rock! wow!!! I'm in a bit of shock right now thinking of the impact of this today.