I seea counselor,not sure of her legal title. She has told me that she has dealt with many kids and schools, and the school has the resources just not telling me. difficult child therapist said he was going to place a call to school to see what is going on after difficult child and I informed him of what was happening. Would it be wrong for me to ask either of these if they would join me in the IEP meeting in MAY? Counselor is who I see. therapist is difficult child's.