difficult child 1 is moving back to Maine. He denied it yesterday. He is leaving behind a job and a place to stay. There are NO JOBS in Western Maine. I just don't understand the lure of unemployment. I am afraid he has hooked up with some "friends" who will show him how to get disability. So many people are "disabled" in our former community. I'm done with this kid, I've had enough. I can't even find the love anymore. He spent the Memorial Day weekend painting some rich man's helicopter FOR FREE! Do you have any idea how much a helicopter costs? He would never lift a finger to help us without our paying for simple family chores such as moving HIS laundry from the washer to the dryer ($1.00 according to his social worker). I'm so sad. So much money, energy, and love have gone into raising this 23 y.o.