My son is 23 years old. I have been enabling him for years. Probably his whole life. He has had anxiety issues since he was around 3 years old. So...I have went above and beyond and it bit me in the ass. He has no motivation, will not stick with a job, asks for money, groceries, etc...His girl friend lives with us, too and is just as bad if not worse, than he is. My boyfriend is ready to leave me over my son. My son has some addiction issues as well. He has stolen from us in the past. I gave them a deadline to move out, but they have no money and nowhere to go. I bought him a car, so there's that. The deadline is only 3 days away and I'm wavering. His girlfriend landed a job yesterday, but I feel it's too little, too late. This has been going on with them for 2 full years . I'm tempted to give them another month to save some money, yet again...but I feel in my gut it won't make any difference. Any advice?