Sorry guys this post is mostly about ex and will probably be long. Ex is supposed to use e-mail or court appointed 3rd party to contact me. He is calling my parents and grandparents. He called my grandfather today saying he won't be able to make the Wed. visit. He claims to have called the 3rd party and emailed. Ex said he was just making sure all bases were covered. He lied. He hasn't e-mialed me and if he had called the 3rd party the first thing they would've done is call me. They haven't called yet. The court won't take the word of my family, so ex can say what ever he wants and there is no record of it. I bet he is hoping that I don't show at the drop off place tommorrow. Then he can accuse me of denial of visitation. Instead what I am going to do is call the 3rd party explain what is going on and see what they say. Next time we go to court this is going to be an issue. I'm just mad and venting. I have not been happy to live with. The trap is so transparent.