Tomorrow is my son’s 26th Birthday. He hadn’t called for a few days, but he has called 4 times today and he actually left a message. He said that his older brother promised he would hang out with him tomorrow but he won’t answer his phone, he does not remember his little brothers phone number and he has not talked to his Dad in weeks and he just wanted to know if I remembered that tomorrow is his birthday…. He is the one that I told you all about last week that keeps calling because he is now at the homeless shelter. His older brother, also my son age 32, is a meth head and has been flopping where-ever for years. He is a journey plumber but refuses or can’t hold a job. He recently posted some horrible stuff to me on my face book because I have recently cut him off too. He could usually count on me for about 100 bucks a month or so. But he started threaten to go talk to my husband’s family because he feels like they have money and the he is entitled to it somehow so I blocked his number and then had to block Facebook from him. I am always looking over my shoulder because I don’t trust him. My youngest child is 22, he is resourceful but unfortunately I am still one of his resources, he does work, plays organized sports and he is the less of 3 evils, I have decided that I have to cut all 3 of them off and now so I will not be answering his calls for a long time either. So bottom line, I have 3 sons that all have about the same problem and they all believe I owe them. I actually was married to their father until 4 years ago, we did not even divorce until the youngest graduated high school! But they played me against their father, which was easy because their father is a pot head that could always find a good reason not to work, usually using the kids needing parenting as an excuse. I have been in the military for the last 28 years to support them all. I have found a great man who has some pretty great kids, the 2 left at home are 9 and 10. My grown kids seem jealous and resentful that I have turned my attention to them. They make me feel guilty every minute of the day. I have to be honest, I helped create this mess because I just gave them money so they would go away. The middle son has called 4 times since I started typing this and also called my old office and begged someone there to give him my number. I don’t know what to do. I am finding it very hard to enjoy my life at all.