we struggle and struggle. Good thing is he salvaged hisb3 credits from school. He will be able to attend alternative HS next year gain experience in a trade and get his last 6 HS credits. His attitude is rediculous he has blatant disregard for our rules and he barely keeps his room in a livable condition. I drove him to court he requested more time and did not get the annoyance from the crown. Has not set up now legal aid. He missed his bail meeting last week. Is angrycthxthe can not do phone in for bail but he is considered too high risk. He barely crawled out of bed didn't even brush his teeth and went to court in track pants and a hoodie ...nice. He got a job slept in today and missed his first day of work...real nice. I am so stressed and so tired of his woe is me attitude today after the whole sleeping In mess and having insults hurled at me I suggested he investigate an alternate place to stay and suggested he seek social assistance to do so. All the whining and complaining stopped ...for a few hours. He text and asked why I was not home ....at a friends ....he wanted a ride to his friends ...told him take the bus...too long so he asked for uber money ....I said hells no...can drive you in an hour ....he hung up. Unreal. If he does not straighten his attitude out I will do more than invite him to explore alternative living arrangements. If he does not go to school this fall on a consistent basis he will be given a finite date to seek employment and alternate living arrangements. Let's see if he can get his but up for work on Monday. He doesn't bring drugs hone any more but he is still doing them. I tell him he has rehab for support and I no longer hound him for acceptance to an in patient program. He won't accept it and I can't make him go. He has bail coucil for his legal issues. I am just Mom. I love him but I truly don't like his behaviours very much. It has put us into a tailspin I am now on anti depressants and sleep like crap. Suffer from panic and anxiety. I am just so done. I have hope with no expectations.