Our 32 year old son is still in the hospital (as far as we know) and from his ex I found out that he sounds a bit better and is taking the medications. I want to be encouraged, but we've been here before and it doesn't last. At least it isn't bad news. I have started the process online to get him Social Security benefits. It wasn't pleasant, but it let me feel less helpless. It was something I could do to help without having to move him into our house. I will do what I can do within boundaries and try to learn to not let the FOG overwhelm me or go back into rescue mode. Thank you all again who took the time out of your own lives/problems to listen to a stranger and give me your kindness and support.