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Mom? What's a difficult child?
So her teacher tried to block husband on Tuesday from going in the school to help N because she thought she was going to poop her pants, so husband said I'll run her in and help her... Teacher blocked him and said "No I can do it!" was very pushy and annoyed. husband said "No, I would like to help her if that is OK?" Teacher was obviously annoyed but let him... so he came out, N did not poop. Teacher was back to phoney chipper self.
So I pick up N later that day, Teacher comes up and says, "We have a mystery, she pooped and when she came out she had poop on her pants" "Not on her underwear, I don't know what happened, I went in and helped her, she wiped herself and everything was fine, I have no idea what happened?"
So I just said Oh well I am sure it is fine... she was very fast about it and matter of fact. So as I am driving I think, of course, she got poop on her pants when she pulled up her pants, because her underwear always gets stuck down below her pants... hence the poop only on her pants.
I am also thinking, why didn't she help her WIPE??? So we get home and I check her... of course, poop all over her bottom and now her underwear also!!! All dried and her poor tush is now red.
We have talked about this 3 times now!!! should I just figure this is what happens at pre-school? I mean we are paying for this? She said it was no big deal, she would help...
So we are trying to not over react... I hate feeling like it is always something, when today husband is dropping N off and teacher is talking to parent of little boy we drive home everyday, she says to parent, "Have you considered a girlfriend/CF diet? it might help with his issues and his lethargy?" Parent was like what are you talking about!?!?! Teacher says "Well I don't really know what I am talking about, but sometimes these things help, but I don't really know"
Poor E was floored, her son as far as she is concerned is fine. This teacher was SO out of line talking about this in front of other parents and freaking out E about something teacher knows nothing about. She was basically implying he is Autistic or that is what E would have thought once she looked up any info on girlfriend/CF diets!!! I printed up a ton of stuff for E, by that time she was furious and worried and had gone and talked to Pediatrician, we luckily have the same one. Pediatrician was furious!!!
So now this teacher really has husband freaked, he is ready to pull N out!!! But N like it and seems to like the teacher...
We don't have another school right now to put her in... we have a mass shortage of pre-schools in the area.
I am just rambling sorry, getting it out!!! what to do, what to do??? what do you wise people of CD.com think??? thanks
So I pick up N later that day, Teacher comes up and says, "We have a mystery, she pooped and when she came out she had poop on her pants" "Not on her underwear, I don't know what happened, I went in and helped her, she wiped herself and everything was fine, I have no idea what happened?"
So I just said Oh well I am sure it is fine... she was very fast about it and matter of fact. So as I am driving I think, of course, she got poop on her pants when she pulled up her pants, because her underwear always gets stuck down below her pants... hence the poop only on her pants.
I am also thinking, why didn't she help her WIPE??? So we get home and I check her... of course, poop all over her bottom and now her underwear also!!! All dried and her poor tush is now red.
We have talked about this 3 times now!!! should I just figure this is what happens at pre-school? I mean we are paying for this? She said it was no big deal, she would help...
So we are trying to not over react... I hate feeling like it is always something, when today husband is dropping N off and teacher is talking to parent of little boy we drive home everyday, she says to parent, "Have you considered a girlfriend/CF diet? it might help with his issues and his lethargy?" Parent was like what are you talking about!?!?! Teacher says "Well I don't really know what I am talking about, but sometimes these things help, but I don't really know"
Poor E was floored, her son as far as she is concerned is fine. This teacher was SO out of line talking about this in front of other parents and freaking out E about something teacher knows nothing about. She was basically implying he is Autistic or that is what E would have thought once she looked up any info on girlfriend/CF diets!!! I printed up a ton of stuff for E, by that time she was furious and worried and had gone and talked to Pediatrician, we luckily have the same one. Pediatrician was furious!!!
So now this teacher really has husband freaked, he is ready to pull N out!!! But N like it and seems to like the teacher...
We don't have another school right now to put her in... we have a mass shortage of pre-schools in the area.
I am just rambling sorry, getting it out!!! what to do, what to do??? what do you wise people of CD.com think??? thanks