Daughter, 27, now due in about a month. Because of good advice on this thread https://conductdisorders.com/community/threads/pregnant-again.64118/ And ongoing therapy we emphasized to her that we were not going to support or raise any more of her children. She wouldn’t be living here. We won’t be free child care or chauffeurs. Of course, baby daddy bailed at about the 3 month mark (shocker!). Friend she is staying with said she couldn’t stay there with a baby. We presented adoption as the only viable option, what’s best for the child and for her, which is the truth. She saw it was best and is working with an agency, has selected a nice couple, and hopefully will go through with it.