I am becoming very bitter at husband and family. No one asks about how i am coping with addict son in prison 2x. They didnt ask how i was the first time son was in prison, 4yrs. Sister tells me leave him handle his own problems but when her adult daughter calls crying saying her and husband fighting she runs to her to help, hello! Oh i get it since mine uses drugs its different. Double standards. I will no longer talk about my son to any of my family, even husband. If they should ask me about my son, i will tell them if they want to know about how he is doing to talk to him. I dont want to hear any condescending remarks or what i should do or dont do.