Hello, I posted a few months back about my 34 yr old son and his girlfriend who has been in a mommy and me program. I am kind of shy but read all your wonderful posts. We set our son up in a room an hour from us, he started a good job. It only took a few weeks, and he lost his job, didn't tell us and is now in his last day at a week long mental health stay at a hospital in one of the worst cities in US. My husband and I did leave for FL last week, and he got more angry and depressed to think we went ahead with our plans. Tomorrow he will get discharged and go to city social services, being homeless. I am trying so hard to follow through with letting go, yet, my thoughts of how suicidal he has been and not seeing his baby makes me feel he will commit suicude or be killed in this horrid city. We have done everything to help him over these past 12 years. He is back at less then zero. He called from hospital and asked if we could western Union him money, we are not. My husband and I are so sad and emotionally sick...we both have heart issues. We are 67 and 62 years old. I have been crying off and on every few hours, grieving. Tomorrow will be worse, when he leaves hospital to homelessness. But, we can no longer afford motels, halfway homes. Nothing we ever did helped. He needs long term rehab, but doesn't want it. He is now diagnosed bipolar. Dr said 50 percent of adhd children get that, that was alarming to me. Praying for all our children. Thank you.