<span style='font-family: Comic Sans MS'>Well, guess he could be in trouble again, or could be he just doesn't think about contacting you. We always cringe when we don't hear from our son after about a week and a half, but surprisingly he has managed to stay out of jail (or at least he's getting smarter about getting caught). Sometimes he just says he's busy and hasn't had time to call, so who knows what is going on....
What I am trying to say is I'm hoping he is just being absent minded and has not contacted you. But either way these are HIS choices, not YOURS.
Thinking of you as you wait to hear from him.....</span>
abbey, you have to think of him differently. he has shown you that he is inconsistent. ant never even called me on Easter even though it was his first one out of jail in three yrs. Why do we keep expecting them to be *normal* when they continue to let us know they are different???
J is not going to want to see you unless he is sober and doing well. ant is still apparently the prodigal son, eating the pig fodder, living a wasted life. so he doesnt want me to see it, he knows what I would expect from him.
it is not over yet. things can change. take care of your own depression and needs for now. let J take care of his.