The small wedding is now up to 350...lol. he has a huge family and their family is offering to pay for all food and we want the kids and both families to be happy. I really like his parents. What the heck? We both (their family too) want the kids to be happy We have the venue and hotel for reception and Jumper got her dress. It is stunning. It is also expensive, but we can't deny her. Damn, we can't! In general this is all within our means. She looked so beautiful in her dress, I cried. we will buy Princesses bridesmaid dress and Baby's flower girl dress. Princess is coming up for Jumpers graduation in April. She will stay at Jumpers new house. It is very exciting. Jumper and I are together every weekend now. Hunter often comes. He is another son. Love him. Forging a close bond with all...Sonic and Princess too. Jumper applied for a job at the county jail and is getting stuff together for her background check. She has a good chance, we feel. If not she will go to the police academy. There is much more going on. Hubby retires in May. I can't wait. Life is good. Hugs and love and light to all!