My easy child is getting married in October , and being very young and living at home, she and her fiance would REALLY, REALLY like to receive cash for their wedding vs. gifts, as they are saving to move out and don't have a place to put wedding gifts. Is there a nice and unassuming way to tell guests that they would prefer money instead of gifts? They are expecting approximately 125 people and it would go a long ways towards a honeymoon and down payment on renting a house, etc. They don't want to sound greedy or assume that someone should "get" them a gift, but we were trying to think of ways to help them out. Any thoughts??